Brandywine in White is Saturday–and the forecast is spectacular

If you were waiting for a weather report to commit to Brandywine in White, the popular popup dinner, start packing your picnic hamper.

seatEach year, food and wine enthusiasts gather at a location that’s kept secret until the day of the event, although hosts Vince and Elizabeth Moro have been known to let the cat of the bag early. No word yet on this year’s destination but Vince promises it is exceptional. And with clear skies and a high of 80 degrees, it’s shaping up to be the best BIW yet.

Here’s how it works. Guests dress in their spiffiest white outfits, bring their own place settings, centerpieces, food and drink. The hosts provide tables and chairs. Each year, proceeds benefit a local cause.

I’ve been to several BIW events, as well as BIW’s winter counterpart, Brandywine in Black. I can tell you it’s always a great time. BIW is Saturday, August 24 from 5:30 to 10 p.m. For tickets, visit https://biw2019.brownpapertickets.com

Make dad feel like a king with ribeye crown steaks

On Father’s Day, dads grill steaks. So why not give dad a gift of premium beef that he can enjoy at leisure?

unnamed-2We sampled the ribeye crown from Omaha Steaks Private Reserve, with packages starting at $59.99. The steaks arrive in individual frozen portions so you can treat a crowd or treat yourself.

The ribeye crown is the smaller part of the steak that sits atop the eye of the rib. It’s beautifully marbled, so the steak is tender. And it’s aged for at least 28 days, which enhances the rich flavor. I appreciate that it’s a manageable 5-ounce portion, a serving that is satisfying yet doesn’t tempt me to overindulge. (The ribeyes also are available in 7-ounce cuts.)

IMG_5539The beef is the star of the show, so I focus on great supporting players: a yellow onion, sliced thin and cooked long and low with a smidge of olive oil until it caramelizes. Bring it home with a red wine reduction. For a bit of crunch, I grab a leftover ear of corn from a previous go-round on the grill, take a knife to the cob and sprinkle the kernels over the steak and onions.

IMG_5546It’s a simple, lovely dish, so I pick a table setting that is equally simple. This steak deserves more than a paper plate, so I serve it on a  Royal Doulton dinner plate in the Oxford Black pattern that is embellished with slender rings of black and gold. I further celebrate my repast with a white linen napkin in Grandmom’s silver napkin ring and pour a J.Lohr Cabernet Sauvignon from California with hints of black cherry and cocoa. We discovered the wine on Christmas Eve in Salamanca, New York, in the form of a generous pour from Shelley Finn, a childhood friend of my hosts who was home for the holiday from Buffalo. (Back in Delaware, I pick it up at Costco.)

A great steak, velvety red wine and a pretty table. Hey, we’re living.

You can send Omaha Steaks to wherever dad lives and you don’t have to wait for a special occasion. The beef arrives in a styrofoam cooler that dad can repurpose for brewskis.

Middletown, your kind of play

Anson Williams asked me to tell my friends to go see the play Middletown, a Broadway hopeful on stage through Sunday at Delaware Theater Company on the Wilmington Riverfront. I’m happy to share the news because the cast and play truly deserve a wider audience.

IMG_1253Williams, best known for playing Potsie on the 1970s series Happy Days, is one of a quartet of gifted actors who could be sitting home counting their royalty checks but are instead trodding the boards–and putting on top-notch performances. Williams, for many years a producer, took on his first acting role in 20 years. He costars with an ebullient Sally Struthers, who won two Emmys for her iconic role as Gloria in All in the Family; spunky Didi Conn, aka Frenchy in Grease; and smoothie Adrian Zmed, late of TJ Hooker.

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Middletown, the North Jersey locale where the characters meet as their daughters start kindergarten, is best known as the community second only to New York in casualties of 911. (Spoiler alert: this hits home in the play.) The play follows their friendship of more than 30 years, through thick and thin and copious dinners at their favorite Italian restaurant.

I like Williams’ character Don because he’s a pool man like my dad. He’s a mensch who drinks beer and loves his wife Dotty, played by Conn. Struthers plays Peg, a Smith-educated stay-at-home mom, married to Zmed’s Tom, a writer who loves poetry.

There’s no scenery, which doesn’t seem to matter because the actors are so engaging.

IMG_1249After the show, the cast mingles with the audience. Cheese and crackers and wine in plastic cups on a rainy night in Delaware–and they appear truly happy to be there.

Struthers, cute as a button at 71, hugs her fans and entreats them to hold their cellphones above their heads as they snap selfies. (It makes us all look younger!) She tells me that most of friends–“two years younger to five years older”–can’t find roles but she keeps working. Zmed signs autographs in the lobby. Williams tells us he had great pasta at Mrs Robino’s in Little Italy the other night. Conn gives me a hug and a smile. Later, she waves to my guy Dave and me when we see her and Williams after the show at Iron Hill Brewery, sadly the only place we can find open at 9 p.m. on a Thursday night.

Yes, yes, go see Middletown. If you appreciate live theater and gifted actors, you will find it’s your kind of place.

Eagles have it in the bag with Dooney & Bourke

The most fashionable Eagles fans will arrive at a Super Bowl party on Sunday carrying something classier than a cheesesteak.

B0018G_NJGRPATNEAGLDooney & Bourke has a super line of bags, wallets and wristlets that are resplendent in Eagles green with the team’s signature bird of prey logo. They are trimmed in tasteful brown leather and accented with Dooney & Bourke’s gold-tone insignia.

Styles include the new DOONEY & BOURKE Leather Collection Lily Bucket Bag ($398)Leather Zip Around Phone Wristlet ($148)Leather Slim Wristlet ($108)Leather North South Triple Zip Crossbody ($198) and the Leather Credit Card Billfold ($78), as well as the Nylon Crossbody Pouchette ($98) and Continental Clutch ($128).

All have a durable exterior shell. No worries if you take your cheesesteak “whiz”–that means with the traditional Cheez Whiz topping–and drip a blob on the bag. It will wipe right off.

IMG_3705I checked out the slim and stylish Ginger Crossbody bag (MSRP: $148). It’s sized just right: 6.25 inches high, 2.25 inches deep and 8.75 inches long. The bag is compact but there is still plenty of room for whatever a fan needs, with a front slip pocket, an inside zip pocket, a cell phone pocket and two inside pockets. It’s fully lined, in keeping with the quality we have come to expect from Dooney & Bourke. The adjustable strap has a drop length of 25 inches.

A crossbody strikes me as the ideal bag for a big Super Bowl party, leaving hands free to nibble South Philly-style meatballs, down a Yards Philadelphia Pale Ale, and perform all the moves to “Fly Eagles Fly” as we cheer the Birds on to certain victory in Super Bowl LII.

 

Wee Blessing–and big savings in time and money

Wee Blessing is a curated service that specializes in stylish, brand-name clothing. In its infancy, Wee Blessing focused solely on apparel for kids age newborn-14.

IMG_3564But now Wee Blessing is offering the precious gift of time to the whole family, including collections for men, women, teens, expectant moms and plus-size women.

topIn the beginning, I had doubts about the curated clothing business model. You expect consumers to embrace a service that puts together outfits based on your profile? Won’t they miss shopping? Will they actually be delighted to open a box and see garments they might not have chosen for themselves?

Not to worry. If you don’t like the items, you send them back. If you buy them all, you receive a bonus discount off the already marked-down prices.

The success of pioneer Stitch Fix and other curated services shows that stylish, time-crunched consumers are open to letting someone else do the shopping. I’ve interviewed a number of fashionable women who say they appreciate the opportunity to work with a remote stylist who approaches their wardrobe with fresh eyes. So when the nice folks at Wee Blessing asked if I would like to try their service, I said yes.

I also think their model is on the leading edge regarding the kids’ market. Imagine how thrilled a child is opening a box of really cool clothes!

img-thingBased on my questionnaire, Wee Blessing promptly delivered five articles of clothing; two sets of pants and tops, and a cute dress. All were desirable brand names, in impeccable condition with tags attached.

My fave is the Adrianna Papell cranberry keyhole knit top with fashion-forward bell sleeves (MSRP: $78, $32 through Wee Blessing).  I wore it to a Christmas party, where I got lots of compliments, a true litmus test of fashion.

The box also included: a pretty pink print Lucky Brand top; Calvin Klein dark moon-washed jeans; Michael Kors classic black dress pants; and a Philosophy Malibu orange sleeveless frock that is cute but more appropriate for spring.

Four out of five is a mighty fine batting average. Wee Blessing also is offering an attractive incentive, a $50 credit when you refer a friend.

Treasures Revealed, appraisal day at Winterthur

Ever wonder what your antiques, alleged and otherwise, are actually worth? Get expert valuations for your antiques, jewelry, and other heirlooms at Treasures Revealed, a special appraisal day on Saturday, Nov. 4, at Winterthur Museum, Garden & Library. Sponsored by Freeman’s, the revered Philadelphia firm, Treasures Revealed will feature experts from America’s oldest auction house to provide verbal auction estimates for the items participants bring for perusal.

Getting expert answers to these questions is a great experience. More than 10 years ago, my mother and I brought a few treasures to Winterthur for appraisal. It was tremendous fun and I recounted our experience in an essay for the Christian Science Monitor. (Read it to find out how we did!)

IMG_3257Appraisal day also is a super way to warm up for the 54th Annual Delaware Antiques Show, which runs Nov. 10-12 at the Chase Center on the Riverfront. Expect more details here as the show approaches.

This year’s specialists include the charming Scotsman, Alasdair Nichol, who is a regular on PBS’s Antiques Roadshow®. Nichol, an expert in paintings, won hearts in Wilmington when he volunteered his services several years ago at a successful art auction to benefit Habitat for Humanity of New Castle County.

special-alasdairAt the Winterthur event, specialties will include fine art, silver, jewelry, watches, rare books, militaria, decorative arts, manuscripts, photographs, rugs, pop culture, sports memorabilia, and furniture from Asia, America, and Europe. The event does not include appraisals for modern guns, toys, dolls, coins, and stamps.

Each participant can bring a maximum of two treasures. The fee for each item is $25 for members, $50 for nonmembers. Can’t maneuver the enormous armoire great-grandfather brought from France? Leave it at home and bring lots of pictures.

Reservations and timed tickets are required for the event, which runs 9:30 a.m.-1 p.m. Timed tickets are valid only during the time printed on the ticket. To make a reservation and purchase timed tickets, call 800.448.3883 or visit Winterthur’s Treasures Revealed ticketing page. Tickets also include access to the Garden and galleries. For details, view Winterthur’s Treasures Revealed FAQ.

Before or after the appraisals, enjoy Treasures on Trial: The Art and Science of Detecting Fakes, a special exhibition in the Galleries included with admission. At 2 p.m., there’s a special lecture “Collecting Classics: Henry Francis du Pont’s Pursuit of New England Masterpieces” with Brock Jobe, professor emeritus at Winterthur. Jobe will explore five New England landmarks from the collection and the diverse paths that brought them to Winterthur. The cost to attend the lecture is $10 for members, $15 for nonmembers.

The Dogfish days of summer

It’s a Dogfish Day afternoon. The forecast is for temperatures in the mid-90s. And this time, the weatherman is right.

Dave and I are in Lewes and bound for Dogfish Inn, a hip, mid-century inspired motel.

signWe have taken the hospitable folks at Dogfish up on their invitation to explore the property. It’s a super location, downtown and right on the canal. Further, the inn has personality, a friendly vibe that includes such niceties as a communal fire pit, lawn games, a super-sized ice machine and open outdoor showers for a quick post-beach rinseoff.

The room is clean and cool, with a king-size platform bed, a bit of seating, a rack for hanging clothes and blessedly effective AC. A large sink—the kind you might find in a farmhouse—is open to the main area, flanked on either side by a stall shower and a water closet. It’s fun and funky, just enough space for a pied-à-terre near the sea.

With Cape Henlopen State Park a few miles down the road, Lewes is a bike-friendly destination. We hossed our bikes down from New Castle County but we need not have gone to the trouble. Dogfish has a fleet of bikes, offered gratis to guests on a first-come, first-served basis. There is even an air pump for quick tire recharges.

At dinner time, we head to downtown Rehoboth Beach to Chesapeake and Maine, the brewery’s restaurant highlighting the cuisine of the Eastern Shore and New England. It’s located right next door to Dogfish Head Brewing & Eats.

13691175_1227299067293763_5020080374753480845_oWe start with a selection of plump, briny oysters, so fresh they practically leap off their shells. It’s an auspicious beginning. (You also should try “Smoke in the Water,” a collaboration between Dogfish and Hoopers Island Oyster Aquaculture in Maryland in which oysters are settled in holding pens of Chesapeake Bay water, infused with wood-cured salt and smoked raw in their shells.)

In addition to Dogfish Head brews, there’s a wine list and a selection of cocktails, including such potent potables as the Bierre-Hatten ($12), a concoction of Temptation rye, Palo Santo Marron Bierremouth, Immort Ale bitters, and Immort Ale-infused cherries.

For the main course, Dave reels in the Maine shore dinner ($38), a traditional pairing of steamed lobster, steamer clams, Johnny Blues mussels, fingerling potatoes, and corn on the cob. It’s cooked perfectly and the melding of seafood and veggies reminds us of why this dish is a time-honored classic.

mainedinner-1024x683In the interests of geographic balance, I take a dip in Maryland waters, with lush crabcakes made from sweet backfin and jumbo lump crab ($28). From a list of seasonal sides, I choose decadent sweet-and-spicy hushpuppies, piping hot and oozing bacon, and summery creamed corn succotash.

For dessert, we share gooey, creamy cheesecake with fresh, ripe strawberries.

Service is attentive and engaging. There’s a lively hum in the room but it doesn’t drown out conversation.

Back at the Inn, it’s still too hot to hang out by the firepit. But the gentle breeze on the balcony suits us just fine.

In this relaxed atmosphere, it’s easy to get to know our neighbors. To our left are four guys from Jersey, friends and brothers who own two small businesses: a beauty salon and a landscaping company. To our right are newlyweds, teachers from Harrisburg, Pa.

They have come for the Dogfish All-INNclusive Experience, in which guests leave their cars at the inn and let the hosts do the driving for a VIP tasting and private behind-the-scenes tour of Dogfish Head Craft Brewery, home to a 200-barrel brew house, wood-aging room and state-of-the-art bottling line. Afterward, the group goes to lunch at Dogfish Head Brewings & Eats.

13775523_10209581687806271_704852604769277530_nOnly a day before, Dave and I were at WPXN’s XpoEntial Music Festival at Wiggins Park on the Camden Riverfront, where we drank Dogfish Head 90 Minute IPAs while listening to a great lineup of artists. (On Sept. 17, we’ll be at Bellevue State Park when Dogfish Head presents XPN’s Analog A-Go-Go music festival.)

So we and the other guests all start out with something in common. We enjoy Dogfish Head beer.

Dave gets out his guitar. We sit on the balcony as he plays. Soon, our neighbors are singing along. We drink beer. We chat.

The Jersey guys tell me they are voting for Trump. I keep drinking. Dave keeps playing.

Eventually, beer and music trump Trump. After a pleasant evening, we all shake hands and retire to our respective rooms.

dogfishThe next day, we pack up the car before walking into town for a late breakfast at Notting Hill Coffee, where we sip fresh-brewed joe with sandwiches of egg, cheese and sausage folded into buttery croissants.

We learn that the hospitality at Dogfish Inn extends beyond checkout time. We are welcome to leave the car in the lot as we head into town. In a locale where parking is at a premium, we appreciate this courtesy. We also have access to the restroom in the inn’s freestanding lobby, as well as the outdoor showers.

Clearly, Dogfish takes hospitality seriously. But in a light-hearted way.

We drive off to Cape Henlopen to celebrate Dave’s birthday, another trip around the sun. But not until Dave gets his requested gift: a Dogfish Head ball cap, conveniently sold in a small gift shop in the Inn’s registration area along with other branded Dogfish merchandise. We leave Dogfish Inn with a warm feeling for a cool concept.

 

 

 

Cocktail of the hour: The Newman Negroni

I first sipped Campari in Umbria, in an open air café in a square in the ancient city of Perugia. Even mixed with club soda, Campari struck me as a bit medicinal with its strong, herbaceous notes.

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I soon learned what the Italians have known since Campari was first distilled in 1860. Enjoying a tot with friends at the end of a long day is just what the doctor ordered.

The Negroni dates back to 1919 in Florence, when Count Negroni asked for gin in his Americano in place of the soda. It’s a classic before-dinner drink, a blend of Campari, sweet vermouth and, of course, gin. Traditionally, all three ingredients are mixed in equal portions, so it’s a favorite with home bartenders who don’t need a cheat sheet to mix one.

My friend Mike Newman has perfected his own Negroni, which relies more on gin and less on Campari and vermouth.

Unknown-1“Cut the Campari in half, cut the vermouth to a quarter and leave the gin alone,” Mike advises.

I’ve enjoyed many cocktails over the years with Mike and his lovely wife Linda. So I was looking forward to sampling what I now think of as the Newman Negroni.

Here’s Mike’s recipe:

2 jiggers gin

1 jigger Campari

½ jigger vermouth

We used Tanqueray gin, Martini and Rossi sweet vermouth and, of course, the one and only Campari.

Ice and fruit also are important components of this refreshing drink. Mike meticulously measures the liquors into a shaker with lots of ice. He gives the Negronis a vigorous mixing, then serves over more ice in rocks glasses.

IMG_0574Typically, a Negroni is garnished with orange peel but Mike says you can use lemon in a pinch. Take a thin half-wheel of fruit, place it on the rim of the glass and then swoosh around the rim to impart the fragrance and flavor of the orange.

With its ruby tones and bright pop of orange, the Negroni is bellissimo. The herbal qualities of the Campari play nicely with the juniper tones of the Tanqueray and the sweetness of the vermouth. It’s drier than the traditional Negroni, yet maintains its freshness.

We say “si” to the Newman Negroni.

 

 

Handy flashlight a bright idea

File IMPEL Tronics innovative telescoping flashlight under the “I wish I had thought of that!” category.

extendable-telescoping-magnetic-flashlightsThe Extendable Magnetic LED Flashlight is truly a bright idea. It’s a slim, compact LED flashlight that extends to nearly two feet long, with handy magnets on both ends. The heavy-duty magnet on the bottom can lift up to 8 pounds and attaches to metal, such as the beams in your basement, so you can use it for hands-free illumination.

There is also a magnet on the light head that makes it easy-peasy to retrieve metal objects in hard-to-reach places, such as when your car keys slide into the crevice between the front seats. You can attach it to your belt or a pocket with a sturdy clip.

The nice folks at IMPEL Tronics sent me a flashlight to try myself. I put it to the test in my dungeon of a basement laundry room, where the flashlight illuminated a few wire hangers on the floor under the ironing board — and then picked them up with the magnet! No bending, no contorting to reach the hangers.

This flashlight is metallic pink, ideal for a girl’s night stand. The original IMPEL Tronics Telescoping flashlight also is available in black, silver, red and blue and can be purchased through the company website and a handful of distributors. MSRP: $20.99.

Getting reacquainted with jane iredale

It’s always a pleasure getting reacquainted with an old friend.

17800And one of the best friends a woman can hope for is a tried-and-true line of cosmetics. One pal you can count on is jane, as in jane iredale, a producer of skin-friendly makeup. There’s a real-life Jane Iredale, the mother of mineral makeup, who introduced her line in 1994.

Alas, jane and I had fallen out of touch in recent years. Happily, we got reacquainted when I interviewed a number of makeup artists for an article on bridal beauty I wrote for Delaware Bride magazine.

One of the brands that got a consistent thumbs up from the pros is jane iredale, which is available at a number of better salons, as well as online.

image009I write often about beauty, so naturally I keep my antennae up for tips and tricks. I’m also a product junkie who is always looking for for elixirs that enhance our skin, accent our nails and revive our tresses, the niceties of life that help us to look our very best — except younger and fresher.

Here are some of my faves from jane.

Fixation ($30) is a lip stain that lasts all day long, which makes it a great pick for brides as well as busy women. It won’t dry your lips and comes with a complementary gloss so you can oomph the shine factor. You can build layers for more saturated color without worrying about feathering. Fixation comes in lots of shades. I think the yummiest is Passion, a clear, true red that is teamed with a clear gloss.

image011Pure Pressed Base ($52) is an awesome brush-on foundation that comes in a classy gold-tine compact. It gives skin a natural semi-matte finish, rather than a flat matte look. It covers minor imperfections and minimizes pores and fine lines. Even better, it protects your skin from the sun with an SPF 20. It’s water resistant and stands up to humidity.

Active Light Under Eye Concealer ($27) diffuses light, which hides dark circles. The concealer contains cucumber and white tea extract, which reduce puffiness. It’s also great for one of my all-time best makeup tips. Smooth a little concealer on your eye lids and your shadow will stay put for hours. No creasing or running. Honest. Thanks, jane!