Middletown, your kind of play

Anson Williams asked me to tell my friends to go see the play Middletown, a Broadway hopeful on stage through Sunday at Delaware Theater Company on the Wilmington Riverfront. I’m happy to share the news because the cast and play truly deserve a wider audience.

IMG_1253Williams, best known for playing Potsie on the 1970s series Happy Days, is one of a quartet of gifted actors who could be sitting home counting their royalty checks but are instead trodding the boards–and putting on top-notch performances. Williams, for many years a producer, took on his first acting role in 20 years. He costars with an ebullient Sally Struthers, who won two Emmys for her iconic role as Gloria in All in the Family; spunky Didi Conn, aka Frenchy in Grease; and smoothie Adrian Zmed, late of TJ Hooker.

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Middletown, the North Jersey locale where the characters meet as their daughters start kindergarten, is best known as the community second only to New York in casualties of 911. (Spoiler alert: this hits home in the play.) The play follows their friendship of more than 30 years, through thick and thin and copious dinners at their favorite Italian restaurant.

I like Williams’ character Don because he’s a pool man like my dad. He’s a mensch who drinks beer and loves his wife Dotty, played by Conn. Struthers plays Peg, a Smith-educated stay-at-home mom, married to Zmed’s Tom, a writer who loves poetry.

There’s no scenery, which doesn’t seem to matter because the actors are so engaging.

IMG_1249After the show, the cast mingles with the audience. Cheese and crackers and wine in plastic cups on a rainy night in Delaware–and they appear truly happy to be there.

Struthers, cute as a button at 71, hugs her fans and entreats them to hold their cellphones above their heads as they snap selfies. (It makes us all look younger!) She tells me that most of friends–“two years younger to five years older”–can’t find roles but she keeps working. Zmed signs autographs in the lobby. Williams tells us he had great pasta at Mrs Robino’s in Little Italy the other night. Conn gives me a hug and a smile. Later, she waves to my guy Dave and me when we see her and Williams after the show at Iron Hill Brewery, sadly the only place we can find open at 9 p.m. on a Thursday night.

Yes, yes, go see Middletown. If you appreciate live theater and gifted actors, you will find it’s your kind of place.

The Delaware Antiques Show, first in collectors’ hearts

In Delaware, folks have an affinity for old things. After all, it’s the First State, the oldest of the 13 original colonies.
So it’s no surprise the Delaware Antiques Show is one of the nation’s premier venues for antiques, featuringIMG_0854 60 meticulously vetted dealers. The annual event, celebrating its 55th year, benefits Winterthur, the museum and country estate that is home to Henry Francis du Pont’s exceptional collection of American furniture and decorative arts.
At the show, you will find such treasures as chiming tall-case clocks with six-figure price tags, maritime paintings, vintage jewelry, rare firearms and delicate stemware that has miraculously survived centuries of wining and dining. My personal favorite: 18th century highboys crafted from tiger maple. For my money, it’s the world’s most exquisite wood.

The preview party gives supporters a chance to buy before the show opens to the public. It’s also a wonderful opportunity for the locals to dress up, connect with friends, enjoy abundant fine food and drink and people watch. Here I am with David Wunsch, director of the Delaware Geological Survey, who deals with some of the earth’s oldest elements.

The first year I attended, I rubbed elbows with Leigh Keno of the Keno twins on the PBS show Antiques Roadshow. We were both putting together mini roast beef sandwiches. He asked me to please pass the horseradish. I did. A cherished Delaware Antiques Show moment.

Make your own moment. The show runs through Nov. 11 at the Chase Center on the Riverfront.

Treasures Revealed, appraisal day at Winterthur

Ever wonder what your antiques, alleged and otherwise, are actually worth? Get expert valuations for your antiques, jewelry, and other heirlooms at Treasures Revealed, a special appraisal day on Saturday, Nov. 4, at Winterthur Museum, Garden & Library. Sponsored by Freeman’s, the revered Philadelphia firm, Treasures Revealed will feature experts from America’s oldest auction house to provide verbal auction estimates for the items participants bring for perusal.

Getting expert answers to these questions is a great experience. More than 10 years ago, my mother and I brought a few treasures to Winterthur for appraisal. It was tremendous fun and I recounted our experience in an essay for the Christian Science Monitor. (Read it to find out how we did!)

IMG_3257Appraisal day also is a super way to warm up for the 54th Annual Delaware Antiques Show, which runs Nov. 10-12 at the Chase Center on the Riverfront. Expect more details here as the show approaches.

This year’s specialists include the charming Scotsman, Alasdair Nichol, who is a regular on PBS’s Antiques Roadshow®. Nichol, an expert in paintings, won hearts in Wilmington when he volunteered his services several years ago at a successful art auction to benefit Habitat for Humanity of New Castle County.

special-alasdairAt the Winterthur event, specialties will include fine art, silver, jewelry, watches, rare books, militaria, decorative arts, manuscripts, photographs, rugs, pop culture, sports memorabilia, and furniture from Asia, America, and Europe. The event does not include appraisals for modern guns, toys, dolls, coins, and stamps.

Each participant can bring a maximum of two treasures. The fee for each item is $25 for members, $50 for nonmembers. Can’t maneuver the enormous armoire great-grandfather brought from France? Leave it at home and bring lots of pictures.

Reservations and timed tickets are required for the event, which runs 9:30 a.m.-1 p.m. Timed tickets are valid only during the time printed on the ticket. To make a reservation and purchase timed tickets, call 800.448.3883 or visit Winterthur’s Treasures Revealed ticketing page. Tickets also include access to the Garden and galleries. For details, view Winterthur’s Treasures Revealed FAQ.

Before or after the appraisals, enjoy Treasures on Trial: The Art and Science of Detecting Fakes, a special exhibition in the Galleries included with admission. At 2 p.m., there’s a special lecture “Collecting Classics: Henry Francis du Pont’s Pursuit of New England Masterpieces” with Brock Jobe, professor emeritus at Winterthur. Jobe will explore five New England landmarks from the collection and the diverse paths that brought them to Winterthur. The cost to attend the lecture is $10 for members, $15 for nonmembers.

Tarting up the Christmas tree, with help from Fairfax Hardware

You wouldn’t know it to look at it but my Christmas tree is old and fake.

It was passed along to me years ago by my good friend Brenda, who was upgrading to a fancy shmancy pre-lit tree and was looking for a new home for her perfectly fine, impeccably maintained artificial tree.

img_1714-copyFor years, I had stuck by real trees, like pine sap on your best sweater. But I experienced a gradual awakening. Fake trees don’t shed much. No worries about recycling them after the holiday. And if you put lots and lots of blingy objects on the tree who will know the difference?

Thus began my new tradition: tarting up the Christmas tree.

I load my tannenbaum with decorations I have been collecting for years, through the stages of my life.

There’s Baby’s First Christmas ball–and Rebecca’s Christmas mouse, made by the baby herself six years later. Many are handmade, traded years ago at the annual neighborhood ornament exchange on Garfield Avenue in Palmyra, N.J., my home town. There are official White House ornaments, including one I brought back from my stint at USA Today. (I predict the official Trump ornament will be a 14k gold wall–and Mexico will pay for it.)

img_1715My current fave is a miniature replica of an old-fashioned typewriter, a gift from my friend Ellen, with whom I have shared many fond conversations on the merits of Chicago Style versus AP Style.

For the first time I can remember, my tree is illuminated by big, colorful bulbs harkening back to the days of my childhood. (You can buy them at BJs.) I’ve also added vintage garlands reminiscent of a feather boa from my glamorous grandmother’s tree, which I found when my sister Roni and I were cleaning out closets after our mother died.

img_1716Mom was fond of tinsel, arranging it strand by strand on our tree. I take my own approach,  tossing sparkling clusters of silvery icicles with great expectations. When the tinsel gets to the state of the cobwebs on Miss Havisham’s wedding cake, I know I’ve got it right.

After the holiday, as I dismantle the tree, I follow Mom’s example, removing the tinsel to use next year. But each season yields less glitter as time and kittens take their toll.

This year, I did not have enough tinsel to tart up the tree! I also was out of ornament hooks!

I squandered precious time scouring Walgreen’s before heading to Fairfax Hardware, my go-to destination for whatever ails my house. As always, the people who work there were courteous, helpful and gosh-darn nice.

Do you have tinsel? And ornament hooks?

Of course, here you are. Happy holidays!

At Christmas, and always, a great hardware store is truly a gift.

 

 

 

Brews at the Barn. Important update

BREWS AT THE BARN WILL NOT TAKE PLACE ON SATURDAY. LOOK FOR A NEW DATE IN SPRING 2017

Hiking on the Delaware Greenways trails is a favorite pastime, surpassed only by enjoying a brewski after a tramp in the woods.

unknown-1You can raise a glass to support the nonprofit group at Brews at the Barn on Oct. 15 at Historic Penn Farm in New Castle. Supporters will enjoy seasonal fare, paired with beers from Dogfish Head Craft Brewery.

Delaware Greenways wind through through some of the most beautiful scenery in the First State. The trails are highly accessible–one runs through my neighborhood–which makes it easy to engage in an active lifestyle. I’m a member and I hope you will become one, too.

At Historic Penn Farm, Delaware Greenways encourages heathy eating through such programs as a Farm to School partnership with the Colonial School District, where students learn to grow and prepare nutritious food. There’s also a seasonal farm stand.

Brews at the Barn is a great opportunity to view the 300-year-old farm, a rare crescent of agriculture in a mostly developed stretch of New Castle County. So c’mon down. Tickets are $45 for nonmembers and $40 for members. The pouring starts at 6:30 p.m.

Art auction benefits Habitat for Humanity

I like art. I certainly enjoy a party. And I’m passionate about the good work done by Habitat for Humanity of New Castle County.

unnamedOn April 8, Habitat is hosting its second live auction and art show to raise money to help people who need homes. The event is in memory of longtime Habitat supporter and art lover Judy McCabe, who worked tirelessly to plan last year’s successful auction of paintings donated by Dick Poole, a lawyer and collector with terminal cancer who made this event part of his considerable legacy to the community.

A year later, both Judy and Dick are gone. But their dedication to helping others lives on.

This year’s event, aptly titled There is no pARTy without ART, will be held at Christ Church Christiana Hundred in Greenville, 6-8:30 p.m. It’s co-chaired by ardent art patrons Cindy Pettinaro Wilkinson and Stephen Mottola. Tickets are $80 for couples, $50 for individuals.

I’ll be there. Hope you will be, too!