A Highlands fling at Inverlochy

Robert Burns was a romantic, pouring his heart into verse and Scotch whisky into his glass.

Open_Hmoon_InverlochyCastle_DB_FW13The poet’s beloved Scotland and its wild, beautiful and remote Highlands offer honeymooners the warm kiss of history, hospitality and natural wonders—with the bliss of fine food, drink and accommodations.

For a true Highlands fling, book a room at Inverlochy Castle, where Queen Victoria came to sketch in 1873. Located near Fort William, the manor house is sited a caber toss from the ruins of the original 13th-century castle and is an easy drive from Inverness, the largest city in the Highlands. Or take the Caledonian Sleeper, the iconic overnight train from London. To travel in style from the station, reserve the hotel’s chauffeur-driven Rolls Royce Phantom, stocked with two bottles of ice-cold champagne.

It’s a splendid place for a honeymoon, as reported in Delaware Bride magazine, one of a number of luxury accommodations in Scotland.

Guests are greeted with bubbly on arrival, no matter how they get to Inverlochy. The extravagant bouquets in the great hall are imported from Holland. The glittering chandelier is from Venice. Sink into sumptuous, down-filled seating in front of the coal fire and listen to the pianist who plays each evening. Equally sigh-inducing rooms are equipped with laptops, high thread-count sheets and marshmallow-soft pillows.

164500_Text 24If the $500-per-night entry point is too rich for your blood, book at a local bed-and-breakfast for about $100 a night, breakfast included. Then make a reservation for lunch, afternoon tea or dinner at Inverlochy Castle’s restaurant, which has held a coveted Michelin star for more than 20 years. The heavily carved sideboards in the hushed, posh dining room were a gift to the lord of the manor from the King of Norway.

A lavish three-course dinner featuring such delights as the hotel’s signature baked quail with foie gras is an attainable splurge, priced at the equivalent of $104, tax included. Lunch is $59 for three courses. Sommelier William Birch expertly pairs wines with dishes.

After your repast, stroll velvety moss walking trails on the 500-acre grounds. The estate also offers fishing, tennis and falconry for outdoors enthusiasts, as well as a clubby billiards room for the indoor set. Nearby activities include monster-watching cruises on Loch Ness and hiking on towering Ben Nevis, the tallest mountain in the United Kingdom.

Midnight Promise aces the sniff test

At any hour of the day, any day of the year, a new scent is released on the market.

image002Midnight Promise, an elegant and aromatic up-to-the-minute newcomer from Bellegance Perfumes, was created by master perfumer Sarah Horowitz and fragrance designer Karen Dubin, winner of the 2013 Cosmetic Executive Women Great Idea Award for Fragrance Innovation.

Here’s their recipe for your senses: red mandarin and cinnamon for starters, followed by spicy notes of Moroccan red rose. Underneath it all, you will find exotic hints of amber incense, vanilla musk and sandalwood, balanced with fresh tones of minty patchouli and grassy vetiver.

With a preliminary spritz on my wrist, Midnight Promise smells fresh and feminine. But it had yet to pass my sniff test: wearing it to a social event and waiting for the reaction, if any, from other guests.

So Midnight Promise and I head off to a dinner party, escorted by my husband, who does not notice that I smell ravishing. When we arrive, the house is filled with the gorgeous aroma of Bolognese sauce. Would anyone notice my perfume?

Our hostess gives me a hug and says: “what a nice scent! What is it?” Those are the words perfumers yearn to hear. When we head home after a lovely evening, the fragrance is still going strong.

Midnight Promise was previewed at the 2013 Sniffapalooza Fall Ball in New York, which was founded by Dubin to attract fragrance enthusiasts from around the globe. The company sent me a small tester enrobed in a purple velvet bag to try for myself.

Manufactured in France and bottled in a pretty, boudoir-worthy bottle, Midnight Promise has a MSRP of $105 for a large, 2.5-ounce bottle.

 

 

An eye on firmness with Relastin

During our young, invincible years, our skin springs back naturally, thanks to elastin, a protein found naturally in the skin.

 

But our bodies stop producing it while we are still in our teens. And unless we intervene, it’s all downhill from there.

rel_1Enter Relastin Eye Silk Zinc Firming Complex, which clinical tests report improves the appearance of skin’s firmness, as well as the resiliency of the delicate eye area. Formulated with zinc firming complex, Relastin is formulated to reduce the appearance of dark circles and improve the appearance of lines and wrinkles.

It’s easy to smooth on and can be applied under makeup. Use your ring finger to avoid pulling the skin around your eyes.

After two to four weeks, 80 percent of the women who tested Relastin reported that fine lines and wrinkles were not as noticeable. (I suggest you stick with it for at least four weeks before making an evaluation. Good skin care requires consistency and stick-to-it-tiveness.)

That said, the results speak for themselves. For the past four years in a row, Relastin Eye Silk was the winner of Allure magazine’s Best of Beauty Award for best eye cream. 

MSRP: $69. You can find Relastin at  www.precisionMDskin.com and lots of other beauty outlets.

A toast to Ferrari

I always keep a few bottles of bubbly chilled because I am an optimist. I believe there will be something to celebrate — sooner rather than later — so I stand prepared.

I am especially fond of the sparkling wines produced in Trento by Ferrari, which I discovered 15 years ago when my husband and I were honeymooning in Italy. (Ferrari also means “smith” in Italian, which is my maiden name!)

Ferrari_Spumante_Art_PostersWe visited the Ferrari winery in the picturesque Alpine region, where we were the only people scheduled for a tour that day. How romantic! We enjoyed a memorable private trek through the winery with a friendly guide, topped off with a glass of bubbly. We watched a classy movie on the history of Ferrari narrated by Roger Moore in dapper James Bond fashion. And we took home a complimentary poster of the comely wine lady (she’s the one on the right) and had it matted and framed. Today, it hangs in our dining room, a reminder of our lovely day.

image001New Year’s Eve will be especially festive when you uncork a bottle of bubbly from Ferrari, Italy’s leading producer of traditional method sparkling wines since 1902, which are crafted using the same process as Champagne. Trento’s high elevation produces dry, crisp, elegant food-friendly wines. In addition to our table, Ferrari is served at the home of the Italian president, the Venice Film Festival, the Milan fashion runways and World Cup Soccer.

The latest release is the 2006 Ferrari Perlé, a Blanc de Blancs sourced exclusively from estate-owned vineyards (SRP $35). Expect a highly refined pour with notes of apples and almonds. The signature Ferrari Brut NV is made from 100 percent Chardonnay grapes and is super with food, especially oysters. Notes of peach are balanced with soft brioche.  (SRP$25)  Ferrari Rosé NV, a blend of Pinot Noir and Chardonnay, is an exceptional rose that is a good match both visually and taste-wise with salmon. It’s lively and citrusy with a long finish (SRP $37).

Soon, you will be creating your own memories with Ferrari.

 

 

Toning up with Amala

Here’s a beautifully simple New Year’s resolution. Be good to your skin.

HydrateToner_100mlpkg.large_1It’s a vow that circles back to you. Because when you’re good to your skin, your skin is good to you.

If you don’t already use toner, ring in 2014 by adding a good skin bracer to your routine. Toner whisks away traces of oil or makeup you might have missed. It also helps to tighten your pores, while keeping skin hydrated.

Amala’s Hydrating Toner (MSRP: $48) is a high-quality toner that comforts your skin. It’s especially effective in winter, when harsh, drying winds swirl around us. It keeps skin refreshed without chaffing or reddening.

I’m the sensitive type — at least as far as my skin is concerned — and Amala understands skin that needs a little extra attention. So if you have hesitated to use toner in the past for fear of drying or dulling your skin, not to worry. This toner comforts the skin with jasmine, aloe and other whole plant extracts with antioxidant properties.

Made in Germany, Amala produces a extensive line of cleansers, toners and skin care products made from natural ingredients sourced from fair trade farmers.

Omaha Steaks saves Christmas

It was a Christmas horror story: Three days before the big day and I learn that the gift I had ordered for my lovely daughter and her fiancé won’t be available until mid-January.

unnamedMy darling girl, Rebecca Blythe Hodges, lives in California. Her future husband is Tobe Hooper, the esteemed director and creator of The Texas Chainsaw Massacre and one of the smartest, sweetest guys I know.

So, who do I trust to deliver nice gifts sent from us in Delaware to Tinsel Town, more than 3,000 miles away?

I look to the Midwest, where everyone is so gosh-darn nice and folks abide by their promises. I am counting on Nebraska, specifically on Omaha Steaks, which has maintained a longtime relationship with my basement freezer.

imagesOn several occasions, I have spoken with real, live customer service reps who, indeed, live and work in Nebraska. I like them. I trust them. I believe them when they say their grandkids love the pork chops and the frankfurters are great with sauerkraut.

A selection from Omaha Steaks strikes me as the perfect present. What better gift to ship to a master of horror and a beautiful maiden than a cooler full of red meat?

So I pick a package I feel confident they will enjoy. Filet mignon, naturally. Sirloin steaks. Burgers. Pork chops, hot dogs, potatoes au gratin. And for a little variety, filet of sole stuffed with crab and scallops.

Then a little box pops up on the computer screen. Would I like to add four more sirloin steaks to the cooler? There’s no additional shipping charge. And, hey, it’s the holidays, so Omaha Steaks is offering a great deal. They will even toss in a set of steak knives.

I click YES.

Another box pops up. How about a couple of one-pound bags of sirloin tips?

YES again. Bring on the longhorns. The moo the merrier.

On Dec. 23, Rebecca calls to thank us for the gift. It has arrived on the doorstep, impeccably packaged and in plenty of time to ring in Christmas. She and Tobe are delighted with their special treats.

A holiday horror story has a happy ending, thanks to the nice folks from the Cornhusker State.

 

Indy grocers keep their place at the table

Here’s an article on indy grocers I wrote for the Delaware Business Daily:

At Lloyd’s Market in Lewes, shoppers are thirsty for soy milk.

“We know there’s a demand for it because we have a number of customers who have requested it,” says Lenny Pollitt, son-in-law of owner Lloyd Purcell.

photo-2-315x236The challenge is finding shelf space for new products in a small store. For Pollitt, the solution is offering lots of products, but fewer brands.

“There are 10 brands of soy milk and we don’t have room for them all,” he says. “So we carry two brands.”

In addition to feeding customers, independent grocers focus on listening to them. Pollitt and other indies say that is what sets privately held markets apart from big corporate chains.

“We pride ourselves on pleasing customers with special cuts of meat and the things they can’t easily find anywhere else,” he says. “We have one customer who asked us to order her favorite soap because the drugstore didn’t carry it any more, which we were happy to do.”

In a marketplace fat with choices, independent grocers are intent on getting their piece of the pie. In Delaware, the indy slice includes 39 supermarkets which generate $359.79 million in annual sales, according to the National Grocers Association (NGA), a trade group based in suburban Washington, D.C. NGA tracks markets with sales of $2 million a year or more.

NGA says indy grocers are responsible for 4,550 jobs in the First State, which includes store employees, as well as workers in businesses that serve market owners, including providers of equipment, real estate, supplies, technology and transportation.

“Independents are holding their own, despite the challenge of rising costs,” says Peter Larkin, NGA CEO, noting that expenses for employee healthcare benefits increased 7.6 percent in 2012. “They succeed by being nimble, by adjusting quickly. With a big chain, decision making can be a lengthy, complicated process.”

In the food business, there’s no such thing as a free lunch. Larkin says many family-owned indies are faced with succession issues when no one in the next generation wants to mind the store. Even when there are interested heirs, there’s no guarantee everyone will get along.

Solutions include selling the business to employees or hiring a manager to run the business.

“At a store owned by employees, there is a built-in incentive to do well,” Larkin says.

Currently, fewer than one in five full-service markets is independently operated, according to a survey by Progressive Grocer, a trade publication. Chains own 82.26 percent of markets; independents own 17.74 percent.

Chains also ring up bigger tickets, capturing 94.3 percent of sales, compared to 5.7 percent for the indies.

Currently, conventional-format markets account for only about two-thirds of food sales — 65.65 percent — with warehouse clubs, convenience stores, gourmet specialty retailers and military commissaries gobbling the remaining third.

Many indies succeed by focusing on a niche.

Willey Farms in Townsend is a destination for locally sourced produce and baked goods. Witt Brothers Market in Wyoming is known for its meats. Byler’s locations in West Dover and Harrington cater to the speciality baking crowd, offering more than 30 types of flour. Yong’s Oriental Food Mart in Elsmere sells kimchi and other Asian favorites. Zingo’s Market in Newark offers such niceties as an in-house coffee bar and full-service post office.

At Janssen’s Market in Greenville, the owners are beefing up the bottom line by diversifying services. The store doubled in size to 18,000 square feet in 2007 when it moved to a nearby site vacated by a competitor. In addition to groceries, the business offers a bountiful prepared food service, as well as catering and a cafe.

To jump start holiday catering sales, Janssen’s held a storewide tasting with multiple carving stations, a lavish dessert table and gourmet dog treats.

“It’s a great way to interact with customers and gather input from them,” says Joe Janssen Jr., whose father founded the market in 1952.

Janssen and his wife Eileen already have a succession plan in place. Their daughter Paula, who holds an MBA from the Wharton School, already manages day-to-day operations.

At Lloyd’s, the owners are boosting revenue by better utilizing resources. During the holidays, the store’s chicken rotisserie runs ‘round the clock roasting special-order turkeys.

“People order months in advance because there’s more demand than we can actually handle,” Pollitt says.

– See more at: http://delawarebusinessdaily.com/2013/12/independent-grocers-add-the-personal-touch/#sthash.Gpq9a58E.dpuf

DeVita natural makeup. Absolute-ly

tints_lightWhat do you get when you take DeVita’s Solar Protective Moisturizer and combine it with mineral color blends?

The answer: Moisture TINTS, a tinted SPF 15 sunscreen moisturizer that incorporates enlightening pigments and ingredients designed to combat aging. Expect a sheer, barely there finish. Think dewy, not gooey. (The moisture tint comes in light, medium and dark and is currently listed at 25 percent off at $23.96.)

DeVita offers a full line of skin care and Absolute mineral makeup that is vegan and free of paraben and other preservatives.

mls02Soft, natural lipsticks are made from exotic flower waxes, including tuberose, jasmine and rose, blended with macadamia, avocado and jojoba oils. DeVita glides on smoothly and stays put. Best of all, DeVita keeps lips hydrated, a real plus in winter. Never icky or sticky. Pink Diamonds is a soft, feminine shade that looks especially fetching with pale skin tones. (Sale price: $17.96.)

You can find DeVita products in Whole Foods stores, select salons, natural products boutiques and the company website. Free shipping with orders of $50 or more.

 

Hair for the holidays

The tree isn’t the only thing that gets all gussied up for the holidays.

What about you, babe?

 

SONY DSCWhether your look is knot-ty or nice, you can add glitz — and make it stay put — with products from the Number 4 High Performance Hair Care collection.

The Sparkle and Spray gift set includes a 10-ounce can of Mighty Spray, which will add sparkle to your tresses while keeping your hairdo in place, plus Fluroro5 Elixer, a two-ounce super-shine treatment that replaces the dry winter doldrums with lots of gloss.

Even better, there’s a bonus. The gift set comes with a hair band set from Maddyloo that includes two contrasting hair ties, one black and one charcoal glitter, plus a black glitter headband. Just what you need to tie up an artfully messy bun, a fetching side ponytail or an uptown headband.

Based in California, Number 4 makes products that work super hard to style hair without sulfates, chloride or other harmful materials. Order online for delivery by Dec. 18 to ensure delivery by Christmas. Or check out the site to find a salon near you that carries the line. (MSRP: $49)